How Not to Negotiate –“I desire to be your slave”
So when I started in this lifestyle I knew nothing about labels all I knew was that I desired to be with someone that I can give over everything too. I often say that I have no middle ground it is...
View ArticleCentered Through Meditation
One of the tools that I use to help keep me centered is meditation. I meditate 3 days out of the week for 20 minutes. I usually meditate with soothing music playing and in a dark room. This helps me...
View ArticleFound Video: How to Tie a Single Column Shibari Tie
Enjoy! MV Filed under: BDSM, Techniques Tagged: BDSM, Bondage, Shibari, Single Column, Ties
View ArticleService Book of Days 2/15/11
ü Outside my window… (weather, what do you hear, what do you see?) is melting snow…yay. Though I like it when it is snowing this snow is yucky and dirty looking and dirt grosses me out ü my...
View ArticleHow to Tie Off a Suspension Ring
Ran across this this morning. Something for the weekend. Enjoy! MV Filed under: BDSM, Techniques Tagged: BDSM, Bondage, rope, Suspension, Suspension ring, Ties
View ArticleAnother Bondage Video Tutorial
Love these things. Hope you do too. MV Filed under: Techniques, Videos Tagged: Bondage, Kinbaku, rope, Shibari, Tutorial, Video
View ArticleTraditional Chinese Tea Service
I am going to be delving into tea research the next few weeks. I am going to publish some of the more interesting stuff here. MV Filed under: General, Protocol, Techniques Tagged: BDSM, China, Chinese...
View ArticleTraditional Japanese Tea service
Part 1. Part 2 after the break. MV Filed under: General, Protocol, Techniques Tagged: BDSM, Ceremony, Japan, Tea, Tea Ceremony
View ArticleKorean Tea Ceremony
MV Filed under: BDSM, Protocol, Techniques, Videos Tagged: BDSM, Korean Tea Ceremony, Tea, Tea Ceremony
View ArticleTraditions Forgotten
There are a couple of items that have come to my attention that reminded me that we aren’t teaching the new people properly. So here are 2 things to keep in mind. 1) Keep it private. By and large,...
View ArticleWhy I love Electroplay
I teach Electroplay. I am glad I found this video to share with you why I love it so. Filed under: BDSM, Techniques Tagged: electrical play, Electricy, Electroplay, estim
View ArticleTo Slaves: Yes you Have a Choice
Photo credit: Wikipedia Ok. I saw something on FetLife today that really annoyed me. A slave essentially said the following: It isn’t my choice to do this, my Master made me do this. Bull-fucking-shit....
View ArticleNegotiations: Are You Doing It Wrong?
I was reading the other day about a very well known professional submissive who had a bad scene. While she was tied up, on stage, the person she was with refused to stop when she said to stop. He was...
View ArticleBreast Torture
I ran across this the other day. Thought it was a neat idea so I thought I would share. A prospective partner was into breast torture, and being into torture I was interested. This sparked my...
View ArticleWhere Will Master Void Be?
I am doing two presentations in October at the Living On The Edge – Edge play fund raising event, where I’ll be teaching Electrical Play and Caning. Both of these presentations will be more heavily...
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